Have you ever been in a relationship where things just click? You finish eachother's sentences, you know what the other is thinking, you know how the other is feeling, you know when the right time to approach them about things is? I love having that kind of relationship with my husband. Of course, we have our moments, but for the most part, things just click. Even when we're fighting, we still have a sense of where things are, where things are going, what the other is thinking, etc. We've been married for going on eight years now (it will be eight years in a week). We've learned eachother's mannerisms, we can read eachother's feelings, we have a sense of what needs to be said/done to keep harmony. Lately though, I feel as though we're "off." I don't know what it is. We can be having a great day and seemingly nothing happens, but all of a sudden we're "off." We're not reading eachother right. Our timing is off. I'll think he wants one thing, but in reality, it's nowhere near what he actually wants. He thinks I want to hear something, but in reality, I have no desire to hear what he has to say. Little things are sending us into fights that escalate to the point that we're no longer even fighting about what started the fight.
I'm not sure what's going on, but I don't like it :( I think every relationship goes through times where they don't quite click the way they should, but we've been doing so well lately. Things have just been "on." Now, not so much. :(